If your spouse controls all the money, you may feel trapped. Maybe you don’t have access to funds without him knowing. Maybe they've already cut you off after filing for divorce. Or maybe you’re worried they'll accuse you of “spending my money” or say, “If you hire a lawyer, you’ll have to pay for it yourself.” Here’s the truth: you are not stuck. If you’re thinking about filing , there are practical steps you can take right now to set yourself up for success. If you’ve alrea

For many couples, the family home is the largest - and most emotional - asset. When divorce happens, one of the first big questions is: Should I keep the house? The Main Options 1. Sell the Home and Split the Proceeds This is often the cleanest approach. You each walk away with your share of the equity and can start fresh. But selling isn’t always simple - you’ll need to consider real estate commissions, closing costs, possible capital gains taxes, and whether you’re in a pos

Divorce isn’t just about dividing assets - it’s also about making smart financial choices for the future. One of the biggest decisions many couples face is what to do with the marital home. Should you refinance, assume the loan, or sell and split the equity? With today’s interest rate environment, those decisions can look very different than they did just a few years ago. Here’s what you need to know. Refinancing to Remove a Spouse If both spouses are on the mortgage, but onl

💡 This is Part 2 of our series on financial abuse in relationships. If you missed Part 1, click here to read about what financial abuse looks like in marriage and divorce . A woman examines her open, empty wallet, reflecting on financial challenges. While every state is a little different, family courts generally recognize that financial abuse can directly affect fairness in a divorce. Here are some of the most common ways it shows up in the legal process: Temporary Court O